Role of gender in initiating?

Sounds like the dude is most definitely right because he's thinking of her and wanting to keep the relationship lasting longer, this girl doesn't know what she wants. She cried like a little cuz he last relationship didn't work out and so then she asks the guy to **** after that's what was the downfall of her previous relationship? Well that makes no sense at all, and the guy was just thinkin of her and being a good person. Women, sheesh hahaha